A Walk Toward Eden

Tuesday, July 5, 2022

Book Review: Cheatingland: The Secret Confessions of Men Who Stray

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Hi Kate -- Here's a book review for you: In some parts, I’m a philandering SOB, not worth the time of day.   This is because I admitted ...
Sunday, July 4, 2021

Condemning extramarital affairs and explanation as to why they happen

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The  following article appeared in the London Financial Times. Bob's rebuttal follows.  Let’s not be so laisse-faire about affairs   By ...
Friday, December 4, 2020

Bob: The advantages of the older woman

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Hi Kate – I have two sons in their early teens.     They’re close in age and that provides challenges as well as many positive highlights, o...

Kate on Women's Fears

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Hi Bob, Hope all's well with you. Your last note got me thinking about so many things. Yes, men face many fears about sex as they age. B...
Wednesday, March 25, 2020

Bob Replying to Kate on ED and Affairs

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Hi Kate – Men hold a lot of fear over sex, especially when their you-know-what hasn't been working properly.  Don't be fooled b...

Kate on ED and the Sexless Marriage

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Hi Bob – Hope you had a good weekend, and you got to do some fun things. This morning, I’ve been thinking a lot about my sexless ma...
Monday, March 23, 2020

Bob on Marriage, Judgment and Affairs

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Hi Kate -- It sounds like it's been a challenge with your husband, his ED issues, the late wife and his daughters, one of whom pass...
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Bob and Kate
We're Bob and Kate, and, as the song says, we found love in a hopeless place. Our love is not sanctioned by society, but that makes it no less real or legitimate. Our journey began four years ago when Bob, in despair, made a poignant and insightful post to the Rants and Raves section of Craigslist. It struck a chord with Kate, herself in a dark place, who responded. Neither of us had any idea how profoundly this would change our hearts and lives. Is a sexless marriage a result or a symptom of a bad marriage? We started this blog because many married couples experience sexlessness in their marriage. As Kate points out, no one goes into marriage looking forward to the day it turns platonic. One partner might want intimacy more than another. And unless they come to an agreement on the issue, there's a chance the marriage will become vulnerable to an affair and, possibly, divorce. We were inspired to start this blog from reading two books, "Mating in Captivity" by Esther Perel, and "When Good People Have Affairs: Inside the Hearts & Minds of People in Two Relationships" by Mira Kirshenbaum.
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